Love & sex
How to find out if she’s gay or only had sex with you in, like, a friend way
You’ve finally managed to have sex with that girl you’ve been crushing on and you couldn’t be happier. After weeks of texting and sharing all your hopes and dreams for the future, you managed to orchestrate the perfect situation where you could lightly brush hands and let her know you’re keen. The only problem is, after you slept together she kissed you goodbye for 2 seconds less than you were anticipating. Now you’re wondering… does she just want to be friends?!
Look, we’ve all been there. Now it’s time to enter reconnaissance mode and become acutely aware of her every move to gather clues. Here are a few signs that she might be gay and didn’t just have sex with you in a friend way:
SHE KEEPS TALKING ABOUT HER EX, WHO IS ALSO A WOMAN
If she keeps mentioning her old girlfriend, she might be gay. Although she might just mean her friend who also happens to be a girl. There’s no way to know for sure, so keep obsessively checking both of their social media to see how much they truly loved each other.
HER FINGERNAILS ARE SO SHORT YOU’RE WORRIED SHE HAS A KERATIN DEFICIENCY
You’ve never even seen a hint of white at the tip of her fingernails, which you initially thought was a great indication that she’s gay. However, there is a possibility that she’s just not eating a vitamin rich diet.
SHE KEEPS KISSING YOU FULL ON THE MOUTH AND TELLING YOU THAT SHE’S NEVER FELT LIKE THIS BEFORE
This one’s a toughie! Female friendships are full of self-esteem boosting compliments like this, so it’s hard to tell if this is more than that. Besides, she’s probably just being polite.
SHE REPEATEDLY SAYS “I’M QUEEN OF THE GAYS AND THERE IS NO ONE MORE GAY THAN ME”
Really who knows with this one?
Ultimately there’s absolutely no way to know for certain, so just never make a move in case she’s not and you horribly embarrass yourself!